Everybody has heard of the Proverbs 31 woman but I believe more chaos has come from ignoring the Proverbs 31 man; the man at the gate. Many women have suffered from emotional and physical trauma because no one understands the man at the gate.
The man is crying out and acting out but no one hears him.
The church has done many marriage seminars where they discuss the man being the provider, the woman submitting but rarely have they addressed the man at the gate.
There is an order of God for the home, when we get out of order there is chaos.