This ebook discusses what not to do after the divorce, or put more positively, what to do to help your child(ren) cope and process this very big life changing event with specific emphasis on the development of their self-esteem. This is a time when kids self-esteem is likely to take a very big hit, unless the parents are very careful. This ebook focuses on both the parent and childs experiences. However, since I am a child psychologist, it presents information in a way to make the child’s experience better.