Does getting him to fall in love with you seem like an impossible task? Is it more a case of one head banging against a brick wall than two hearts beating as one? Do you even begin to doubt that men are capable of falling in love? The truth is, you've been making it much more difficult than it should be. Getting him to fall in love can, and should be, as easy and as natural as breathing.
The first thing to realise is that getting him to fall in love means giving him something to fall into. And it needs to be much more than bed! Although sex seems to be a good way of getting a man's attention, in reality, it's too cheap and easy. You need to offer him something much more valuable
If you want to be more than a lover, you need to be a friend. And what do friends do? They listen. Listen to your man, and let him know that he can talk about as much or as little as he wishes (of course, if he can't or won't talk to you then that's a problem which needs to be addressed).