After 25 years of counseling and achieving a high success rate for helping people achieve happier, healthier and more fulfilling relationships, I realized that all the tools, tips and techniques they needed could be condensed into three powerful tools, or "secret rules."
Once you've learned these three secrets you will be able to apply them to every relationship in your life that may need special attention.
I'll also show you how to go inside and "look under the hood." It is so important to go to the source of the conflict so you will know how to prevent future collisions.
If you're reading this book because you're in the midst of making an all-important decision about whether to leave or stay, these tools will help you sort things out.
The goal is to learn how to mend and maintain your relationship so you can start to see your partner as a well-intentioned friend instead of an Outsider with an Agenda.
As a therapist and counselor, I am solution-focused. I believe in long term results within a short term period of time. This is probably the most important reason why I scaled down my tools and techniques to The Big 3.